It is well documented that women are less likely to pursue new opportunities they qualify for, compared to men. What amazing things could we do if we said “yes” to ourselves more?

As 2023 began, I struggled to select a goal. I had just wrapped up a big professional milestone and suddenly felt aimless, unable to focus on what should come next. I dismissed opportunity after opportunity; often saying something like “I’d love to be part of that, but I don’t think they’ll allow me.” That process helped me to realize I should "Lead with Yes".

In 2023, I challenged myself to self-reject less often. My goal was to shift the decision about "was I worthy" back in the hands of the opportunity decision makers. After all, when I assume that I didn't belong – I robbed others of the ability to decide if I really was right for the opportunity.

Join me as I retell my 2023 experiences, the highs and lows from Disney to Indy, I’ll recount the many ways I was surprised, and humorously look at quite a few lessons learned.