Governance and innovation are often framed as opposites, with developers seeking freedom and stakeholders demanding control — yet both strive for velocity. The Governance Paradox highlights this tension and explores how platforms can serve as governance vehicles while continuing to support productivity and operational efficiency. This talk outlines a phased journey (Controlled → Directed → Autonomous), demonstrating how control can gradually give way to autonomy. Attendees will learn how to balance oversight with enablement, advancing platform maturity and achieving self-governance.