In this talk, we explore the transformative power of nervous system regulation in high-conflict, high-crisis scenarios. Grounded in a scientific understanding of the human nervous system's response to distress, we delve into neurobiology and nervous system management techniques. The talk emphasizes the pitfalls of power-oriented crisis management and highlights the benefits of de-escalation, from nervous system grounding techniques to fostering collaborative problem-solving. Attendees will leave with practical insights on implementing empathy-driven techniques to improve outcomes for everyone in challenging situations.